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The games we {try to} play

In recent months the Preschooler and the Toddler have been showing a lot of interest in learning to play games. Card games, board games, word games… basically, they just like to compete.

The Toddler is presently obsessed with Hungry Hippos. Sadly, though, she usually has to play it by herself because things turn ugly if her beloved game doesn’t go her way. We’re trying to teach her that it’s not appropriate to yell “You stupid head!” any time one of her opponents gets more “food” for their hippo than she gets for hers. Competition is a hard concept when you’re three.

The Preschooler is especially into card games. We don’t have the original Memory cards, but we do have these Boz character cards that have matching pairs.

I remember playing memory games with the kids I babysat when I was in high school. And, I also remember acting like I couldn’t remember where the matching cards were so they could “win” the game. Well, I’ve discovered that I no longer have to act like I don’t remember where the matches are only because… I really can’t remember. {In defense of my memory, my mini opponents do tend to move the cards all around throughout the game which adds a new degree of challenge to it. But, still, I feel like it shouldn’t be that hard to find the match to “Grumpy B” as the Toddler calls him…}

Another current favorite is Candy Land. Santa gave this one to the Preschooler for Christmas, and I had visions of the girls sweetly playing it together in the playroom. Unfortunately, the Toddler doesn’t understand that the goal of the game is not to land on your favorite picture {be it a cupcake or a sucker} but rather to get to the Candy Castle {a.k.a. the “Magic Kingdom”} at the top of the game board. And, this simple misunderstanding frustrates the Preschooler to no end. So, name-calling and throwing of the pawns often ensues. 
One more favorite for them right now is a game I invented to play in the car. See, for our kids riding in the car is much like taking an Ambien. If they’re the least bit tired, they fall asleep if we drive for more than twenty minutes. It’s a blessing and a curse. So, on cross-town trips when I need them to stay awake, I’ve discovered that trivia works like a charm. Basically, I just make up questions about the characters from Disney movies or shows they watch on TV and let them take turns trying to answer. They love it. Their favorite part, though, is when I let them take a turn asking the questions. 
The Toddler likes to ask her question and then immediately answer her own question. 
The Toddler: What color is Cinderella’s dress?
The Toddler {with excitement}: I know. Blue!
This infuriates the Preschooler. 
But, the Preschooler herself likes to ask questions that are absolutely impossible for anyone other than her to answer. 
The Preschooler: What’s the name of the movie that we watched when we were on the way to the beach?
Me: Ummm, can you give me a hint? 
The Preschooler: We watched it in the car. 
Me: Ummm, Tangled. 
The Preschooler: No! That’s not right. 
Me: OK. Was it Pocahontas? 
The Preschooler: No!! You know what I’m talking about! 
Me: Can you please give me another hint?
The Preschooler {with great frustration}: The one with the fairy!
Me: Ummm, Thumbelina?
The Preschooler: Yes! … finally.You’re not very good at this game, Mommy. 
She has a point.  I mean with clues like that how could anyone forget about the animated classic, Barbie presents Thumbelina?
Let’s hope we find a game we can all enjoy playing together soon…

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